How not to take things personally? | Frederik Imbo | TEDxMechelen

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Frederik Imbo studied theatre at the Royal Conservatory of Ghent and has acted in lots of television series. He founded Imboorling and now has over 15 years' experience in stimulating and supporting people. With the aim of improving their communication skills Frederik gives presentations, workshops, training courses and personal coaching sessions to anyone prepared to make their two ears available.
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Ambrose Hallward
Ambrose Hallward Yıl önce
There should be a class in school where we just watch Ted talks all day.
Mickey
Mickey
He really didnt take it personally, in presenting to such a Dull audience. Bravo sir, you proved your point
Taylor Petrarca
Taylor Petrarca
These 17 minutes have helped me understand my social anxiety more than I ever thought a video could. I now have a new process of thinking that I will apply to my every minute of life.
Becca L
Becca L
"No matter what they do or say you always keep your value" now that right there was the biggest lesson learned!
Talisha
Talisha
“Look at the other person’s intention”…..so powerful👏🏽It’s so important to realize that a person’s character is who they are WAY before you met them. You have to find a way to not change your character based on their actions. Great discussion Frederik!
True Crime Analyst
True Crime Analyst
06:50
Zoha Abidi
Zoha Abidi Yıl önce
Last message was the best.
James Brooks
James Brooks
His method of delivery is one of the best I've witnessed especially on such a difficult topic. This desperately needs to be taught in schools.
Sarah
Sarah
The pastors at my church call this strategy “generous assumptions”- assuming the best of someone, thinking of alternative reasons why they may have done something rather than assuming the worst. Super helpful.
uh0really
uh0really
This is a 10/10 talk, one of the best! He is also such an engaging speaker!
9094mtz
9094mtz
16:58
Ali
Ali
This is EXACTLY what i put to practice on a daily basis and preach about to my friends, perspective is a beautiful thing! I want to emphasize something you mentioned, you have to practice this actively in everyday situations in order to train your brain to do it, but it has brought me to a state of zen, otherwise I was a very angry person.
Milka De La Cruz
Milka De La Cruz Yıl önce
All the dislikes are from people who took this TED talk personally
Марія Щасна
Марія Щасна 9 saatler önce
I really liked his perfomance. There were simple but strong expressions which motivate not to lose the belief in yourself. To my mind, the whole point of Frederik's speech is understanding your own valuality!😊
idk what to name myself ♡
idk what to name myself ♡
I've been going through hard time and my emotions are out of control about how other people perceive me but this made me think so much!! Thank youu for this outstanding speech. I made a note to remind myself.
BTS Ikigai
BTS Ikigai
This is one of my hardest struggles, I always take things personally and I don’t always speak up about my feelings and concerns. Thank you for this Frederic, very helpful and I hope I can always remind and help myself :)
Arthur Moraud
Arthur Moraud
Really good speaker. He shares his emotions and thoughts so easily without filtering what could be used against him.
BonBon S
BonBon S
I literally had this thought last week: do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy? Now here this is. And he explains so eloquently.
Pokie
Pokie Yıl önce
He explained it to us like we are fifth graders and that’s exactly what I needed; a good break down and understanding of each part. This was beautiful
R G
R G
I honestly never thought about it that way. I appreciate him mentioning the example of the friend not wanting to hangout because of "work" and then going out with other friends. That has affected me for years with the people I know
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