How not to take things personally? | Frederik Imbo | TEDxMechelen

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Frederik Imbo studied theatre at the Royal Conservatory of Ghent and has acted in lots of television series. He founded Imboorling and now has over 15 years' experience in stimulating and supporting people. With the aim of improving their communication skills Frederik gives presentations, workshops, training courses and personal coaching sessions to anyone prepared to make their two ears available.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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Karen Jongeleen
Karen Jongeleen 2 saatler önce
Absolutely wonderful. Thank YOU Frederik!
Sharon Miller
Sharon Miller 6 saatler önce
Humans make you angry they don't physically touch you they mess with. Your mind thousands and provek
Chandra Mondal 55
Chandra Mondal 55 12 saatler önce
You are Awesome... I like your personality
Zafrullah Yazid
Zafrullah Yazid 17 saatler önce
I wish I listened to this 30 years ago.
Vishnu BabuRaj
Vishnu BabuRaj Gün önce
Thank you ✌️
Jày ẞèãst
Jày ẞèãst Gün önce
I got really emotional.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo Gün önce
Thank you for sharing this with me Jay!
King Ian
King Ian Gün önce
The best teacher
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo Gün önce
Thank you King Ian!
Faustus Krauss
Faustus Krauss Gün önce
In my experience, women take thing more personal than men. Here is an example: when a man gets fired from his job, he will tell the boss to go eff himself. When a woman gets fired from the job, she leaves crying and in tears. Let that sink in.
wumrey
wumrey 6 saatler önce
@Faustus Krauss you're saying that every single woman is an 'emotional vampire' which is sexist, it doesn't matter if your personal experience with women in general fits that narrative. if you're saying that women are more (blank) than men then you're sexist and if i were to say the same thing about men then it would also be sexist, you arent proving anything
Faustus Krauss
Faustus Krauss 20 saatler önce
@wumrey it’s not sexist. It’a the truth. How many times have I heard men and women say they hate working with women? Or how women are emotional vampires? How women hold grudges and they never get over anything so easily? If My statement upsets you, it’s because it’s about you!
wumrey
wumrey 22 saatler önce
that's literally just sexist i dont know what you're trying to make sink in
Rahel Argaw
Rahel Argaw Gün önce
You are good! Just before I have watched this, I was taking personally about my friend disagreement. You saved me from bad thoughts.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo Gün önce
Hello Rahel, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you after a disagreement with your friend. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Gün önce
Ok🤍✨️
n8_ cr0f75
n8_ cr0f75 Gün önce
This helped me alot. Today was a rough day
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo Gün önce
Hi there. I hope you're better now.
Noel Reyes
Noel Reyes Gün önce
One of the best.
01 Hitesh Jadhav
01 Hitesh Jadhav 2 gün önce
I really loved the last line of this Tedx talk
I AM THE ONE
I AM THE ONE 2 gün önce
You are much appreciated for sharing one of life’s vital lessons. The knowledge gained from your words will have its greatest value when one is able to use wisdom to regularly apply it in their lives. There’s a saying which helps me to remain centered in not taking things personally a majority of the time: Misery loves company. People who are emotionally and mentally weak easily become jealous/envious of people who are stronger than they are in those areas as well as many other areas. When people feel a need to say or do things ‘to’ you, whether they are conscious or not of what their actions will cause, their ego’s goal is to bring you down to the level of pain and suffering it’s experiencing at that point in time. It cannot handle being around people who have it together and are happy most of the time. This is when I shift my focus onto the saying ‘misery loves company’. NEVER take it personally. Instead, see the sufferer as the one who is taking something about you so personally that they would go to great lengths to bring you down in order to prop themselves up. When we can master this, then an even more challenging lesson to master is catching one’s own ego in the act of being the sufferer seeking out company to share in it’s own misery. It must be put in its place. Once we master this lesson, we will no longer play the victim of the ego and, instead, become the victor of our true self. Then, nothing can phase us. We are what we think; therefore, think wisely.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo Gün önce
Thank you for sharing all this. Very strong. thx
md enayet Raza
md enayet Raza 2 gün önce
I really loved the way you explained will try to apply though I am quite impulsive but will try my best
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo Gün önce
Hello 'Md Enayet Raza', Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Tahsin Mahmud
Tahsin Mahmud 2 gün önce
Anyone from rebelpanda?
Curleen R
Curleen R 3 gün önce
🔥🔥🔥🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo Gün önce
With pleasure Curleen!
Nithya Srinivasan
Nithya Srinivasan 3 gün önce
Great.. Superb. Last statement was much more encouraging... Deserve much more loud applause. 👏😊
Nithya Srinivasan
Nithya Srinivasan 13 saatler önce
@Frederik Imbo thank you sir for taking time to reply back. All the best. 👍💐😊
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo Gün önce
Hello Nithya, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Abhishek Sharma ngr
Abhishek Sharma ngr 3 gün önce
What to do if people laugh at me looking my facial expressions. Please help
Abhishek Sharma ngr
Abhishek Sharma ngr 16 saatler önce
@Frederik Imbo thanks a lot.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo Gün önce
Hi Abhishek. Be happy with yourself and your facial expressions. It is who and how you are. Don't let them have power or control over you. Learn to love yourself.
English with Hind
English with Hind 3 gün önce
Amazing 💙❤
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo Gün önce
Thank you very much!!!
Jovan Krische
Jovan Krische 3 gün önce
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Shimmy
Shimmy 3 gün önce
Says match is exactly 18 minutes long, actual video is only 17:36.
Shimmy
Shimmy 2 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo I'll spend it on this comment! I genuinely enjoyed the talk! Already put your advice into practice 😁
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 3 gün önce
Hi Shimmy, you have an eye for details. 24 seconds for you to do what so ever you like.
Jamie
Jamie 4 gün önce
Just the right words I needed to hear since I will work soon in the hospital. I'll try to do the pep talk part that you did before every game. THIS TED TALK IS GOLDEN!!! Hats off to you sir, I wish you all the best in life!!!
Sania
Sania 4 gün önce
So if someone is shouting at me, they probably took something personally which I didn't mean or its the kind of relationship they have with themselves. Which applies to me too. So, I should not take that personally, otherwise I would have not so good a relationship with myself. Boy! It goes in circles 😯
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 3 gün önce
Absolutely Sania!
R3G Oluwa
R3G Oluwa 4 gün önce
Take things personnaly is the worst and dangerous behaviour that we should seriously fight again.. I know what I a m talking about..I paid for my life... Thanks Frederick...You just save the World.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 3 gün önce
Hello R3G Oluwa, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Isaac Shin
Isaac Shin 4 gün önce
Thank you.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 3 gün önce
Hi Isaac! With pleasure. Thanks for watching.
Brandon Braswell
Brandon Braswell 5 gün önce
This changed my life. Thank you sir!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 3 gün önce
Hello Brandon! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
pixelhidef
pixelhidef 6 gün önce
The closing remarks were intense, really good example for all to hear -- kids especially.
pixelhidef
pixelhidef 5 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo Thank you for sharing your story; I've already shared it with my 11 year old son. He just joined junior high and he needs to know how to determine fact vs opinion. He's a sensitive kid so your video will help him understand how to deal with it all. Thank you!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 5 gün önce
Hello Pixelhidef, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Briseur De Lance
Briseur De Lance 6 gün önce
Vulnerable? No. It is just stating facts.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 5 gün önce
It's vulnerable in the sense that you show a part of yourself that is not strong, flawless or perfect.
Roshan Jimmy
Roshan Jimmy 6 gün önce
The golden rule "Do unto others, as you would have them done unto you" This rule stays universal as always
Roshan Jimmy
Roshan Jimmy 5 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo whoa thats cool. The same guy who talked in the tedX is replying back to me.🤩 Thats sick
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 5 gün önce
indeed Roshan.
Samuel Attea
Samuel Attea 6 gün önce
Kevin De Bruyne in 20 years
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 5 gün önce
haha Samuel. And on top, we're from the same country.
DR AK
DR AK 6 gün önce
Hate futbol kno vai bujte parchina re erkum korle hobe kivabe vai bol vai valo lagto jodi r ektu valo korto tahole na hole noi
Piper Allen
Piper Allen 7 gün önce
wow that last message was incredible
Piper Allen
Piper Allen 7 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo Thank you, people like you keep me motivated to help myself because I forget to do that a lot of the time
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 7 gün önce
Hello Piper Allen, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Chill Will
Chill Will 7 gün önce
SPM - Beans and Rice, his ego and his alter ego song.
Victoria Chu
Victoria Chu 7 gün önce
DR JIBOLA thanks for all that you do you really made it possible me to get rid of my herpes simplex virus with your herbal medication 🌱
Nabil
Nabil 8 gün önce
good talk.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 7 gün önce
Hi Nabil, How nice to get such a gentle response on my TEDx talk. Thank you!
Emiley Lynde
Emiley Lynde 8 gün önce
This was fantastic 👏👏👏
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 7 gün önce
Hello Emiley, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Hello
Hello 8 gün önce
احسنت …. الحياة صعبة
Suresh Sood
Suresh Sood 9 gün önce
I wish I had understood this message of his 25 years ago ! Hats off Frederik !!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 9 gün önce
Hello Suresh, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
annaya deb
annaya deb 10 gün önce
superb
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 9 gün önce
Thanks Annaya!
Marit Kristiane Haugan Wick
Marit Kristiane Haugan Wick 10 gün önce
But sometimes it should be allowed to take it personally!!
Marit Kristiane Haugan Wick
Marit Kristiane Haugan Wick 8 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo i agree with you ,and I really learnt a lot from the video so thank you 😊
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 9 gün önce
Of course; everyone can decide whether they want to take something personally or not. I just want to inspire people who suffer when taking things personally, how to take things less personally.
Divya Parekh
Divya Parekh 10 gün önce
nice
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 9 gün önce
Thanks Divya.
Komal Koul
Komal Koul 10 gün önce
This is mindblowing speech
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 9 gün önce
Hello Komal, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Ry Cordova
Ry Cordova 10 gün önce
He look like DaBaby!
Søren Kierkegaard
Søren Kierkegaard 11 gün önce
I work in customer service, it's hard not to take things personally
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hi there! Absolutely; working with customers who are not always friendly and respectful is quite a challenge to NOT take things personally. However, I hope that my talk could inspire you a bit to not longer do it. Good luck!
Adelei Graffin
Adelei Graffin 11 gün önce
Me to We I love it
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Woohooo!
Daniela Conte
Daniela Conte 11 gün önce
Wonderful
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hello Daniela, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
flytomybangtan𐤀 ̮̈
flytomybangtan𐤀 ̮̈ 11 gün önce
Im here
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Good!
priyanka sharma
priyanka sharma 12 gün önce
It's all because we ask for our own approval from people who are 💩
Julia Hallit
Julia Hallit 12 gün önce
The comment of "when you go home with a 9 out of 10, and they say why not 10???" Or they say its merely your obligation, it actually affects you a lot I just realised the extent of it
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Well done Julia!
Sanmati N
Sanmati N 12 gün önce
Best talk i have ever heard✨✨
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hello Sanmati, Thank you so much for your kind message and your huge compliment!!! I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
MOTIVATION SHORTS
MOTIVATION SHORTS 12 gün önce
I never take personally
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Wonderful!
Nelson Dumas
Nelson Dumas 13 gün önce
Anyone came here from a loophole of MJ videos ?
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Haha Nelson! At the same time; Michael Jordan was just trying to do his best. He was trying to deal with his unmet need for recognition. He just wanted to be appreciated.
Goran
Goran 13 gün önce
I am the guy that flashes hedlights behind you and I tell you that it is personaly!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hi Goran. I even believe it gives you a good feeling at that moment. To not take responsibility for your anger. Much easier than to accept the reality as it is. And so you're dependent of what other people do or not do to feel good. Therefore I motivate people to not take things personally, to make them free and independent.
FivE2SS
FivE2SS 14 gün önce
I have learned so much from this, thank you
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hello FivE2SS, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
shajia farhana
shajia farhana 14 gün önce
ok he's nice but that's not life works because this is what I have been doing and I'm taken advantage of
ZDW
ZDW 14 gün önce
What a lovely guy.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Thank you!
Diana Cozmeniuc
Diana Cozmeniuc 14 gün önce
This is really helpfull , thank you soo much! I Needed this..
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hello Diana, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Tanvi Badadare
Tanvi Badadare 14 gün önce
one of the best ted talks
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hello Tanvi, Thank you so much for your kind message and huge compliment! I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
BITMAN CRYPTO 33
BITMAN CRYPTO 33 14 gün önce
Its all about me , all this world all this moment all this about me
BITMAN CRYPTO 33
BITMAN CRYPTO 33 10 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo I ask you 1 Q: Do you prefer the other ppl on you ?! and Im not talking about comfortable situation , we talk about serious moments! WORK! RELATIONSHIP! FAMILY! BUSINESES! DEALS! ELC I hope you got my point!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
There are two ways to say 'it's all about me'; the one is the ego speaking, believing that everyone should make you happy. The other way is the opposite; to take your own responsibility for meeting your needs and over your feelings. I agree with you - sadly - that so many people are ego-centric and believe 'ME, myself and I!!!!!' which will make them never truly happy and which is toxic for our society.
Joddie Dogan
Joddie Dogan 15 gün önce
I raised my hand high sir! I always take things personally. it’s a habit. and it’s exhausting! Ouch! And yes I agree I am selfish. But i do want to make the world a better place. 🙏🏽
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Good luck Joddie!!!!
Ngaakudzwe Sigauke
Ngaakudzwe Sigauke 15 gün önce
This is so amazing!!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hello Ngaakudzwe Sigauke, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Abdulrahman Albuhayri
Abdulrahman Albuhayri 15 gün önce
The second strategy is effective, the problem though is that if I start expressing how I feel about it, others will take it personally 🥴
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Well, I do not mean this in a offensive way Abdulrahman, but if they take your words personally, that their problem. Everyone is responsible for their own feelings and making their needs met. However, if you feel balanced, you can even them empathy.
Venn Diagram
Venn Diagram 15 gün önce
Looking at the thumbnail, I thought he would speak with a very thick London OR Scottish accent.
Venn Diagram
Venn Diagram 10 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo Awesome! I loved your talk, Sir. It's deeply insightful. Thank you 💝
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
haha! I'm pure Belgian!
Kent Alvinata
Kent Alvinata 16 gün önce
Full of Positivity, Great Talk!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hello Kent! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Mandeep Kaur Sandhu
Mandeep Kaur Sandhu 16 gün önce
Ete
SC Young Team TV
SC Young Team TV 16 gün önce
I love the content and his style also !!!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hello 'SC Young Team TV'! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Norin Khan
Norin Khan 16 gün önce
Awesome ❤️
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hello Norin, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
buro fosse1
buro fosse1 17 gün önce
The speaker is really the greatest legend in the world...because he doesn't take things personally,...so he never tries to find his name in those lists because he doesn't have ego and he knows his value how important he is to his friends and family which he has to support. You have my respect Frederik. You have my respect. The whole world has its respect for you
buro fosse1
buro fosse1 5 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo dear sir, i find myself in such a great stress relieved life after i had started following your such a great speech. maybe i wasn't luck enough to attend you live but god so much wanted my life to become a bit more settled than before, that i was surfing some stuff on ted-ed for my school projects and i saw your tedx talk exactly on the right side side of my screen...first i read the title and thought that it may help me someway in my life so that i can be more stable mentally(my neighbours are too much toxic they say abusive words without any reason to me and my family almost everyday and they always find ways to make us uncomfortable and restless). and look at the almighty's power, it really did a lot! and i will continue to put your tips into my practice. i personally feel that there could be more than hundreds of people who are in the same scenario as me and i would definitely recommend your such a really helpful speech so that they could also have some stress relived. one more thing i wanted to tell you sir, as i saw this speech more than one and a half years later, i really didn't hope that you will check the comment section after such a long time and even reply to me but i still had one thing in mind that i must thank such a kind, nice and literally a legend person who spends his life improving others', and after you not only replied to my message, but also highlighted your reply, i am so much gratefull to you for motivating me(though after your speech i wouldn't take it personal if you didnt reply me:) ). May god bestow his blessings on you and your family and friends, may you and all of them reach at great success. A WARM THANKS TO YOU!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hello buro fosse1! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Jason Holman
Jason Holman 17 gün önce
Great video. Awesome ending.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hello Jason, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Ameya Bhosale
Ameya Bhosale 17 gün önce
pls someone forcefully show this to genz
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Hi Ameya, to who would you like to show it? To 'genz'? Who's that?
riz rizzz
riz rizzz 17 gün önce
What's his name and is there anyway to be in touch with him. He blew my mind with his gentlemennes, he definitely is the kinda person anyone would want as the best friend.
Lalina
Lalina 18 gün önce
Lol thought he'd say, ".... remember, you'll still be 20 euros"
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 10 gün önce
Haha! No! You're much more worth than 20 euros Lalina!
killmonger
killmonger 18 gün önce
This is the information I want ,thankyou for sharing .
killmonger
killmonger 18 gün önce
Thank you for responding sir, You are doing a great job.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 18 gün önce
Hello Killmonger, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
It All Happened So Fast
It All Happened So Fast 19 gün önce
"I'm in the middle of a story and you just walk away to switch on the tv" A lot of people won't take that well. Can't assume people are as reasonable as you.
It All Happened So Fast
It All Happened So Fast 17 gün önce
​@Frederik Imbo I've been thinking about what you said in this video a lot. Mostly in an arrogant "This simpleton thinks it's so easy, my situation is a lot more complicated." kind of way. I was sort of annoyed by you, even though I find you super likeable. I was in a fight when I watched this. I thought this video is not for me, it's for my wife... I must've dreamt of this video or something because I was still thinking about it when I woke up. Anyway, the low value of being right really stuck with me and it helped me get over myself and fix things with my wife. Also the cheesy 20€ bit is amazing. Thanks a lot man, I will show my wife also. Also I know I never actually called you a "simpleton", but I still want to apologize :P Groeten uit Finland en ik wens je al het beste!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 18 gün önce
Hi. The question is: do you want to be happy or right? The more you try to see the intention of the other person, the less you will take things personally.
Nabeel Malik
Nabeel Malik 19 gün önce
Last Point was amazing Keep it up 👍
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 18 gün önce
Hello Nabeel, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Johniepee
Johniepee 19 gün önce
Amazing 🙏🏼
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 19 gün önce
Hello Johniepee, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Vallad CODM
Vallad CODM 20 gün önce
Great talk ! He really talks sense
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 19 gün önce
Hello Vallad Codm, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Alyza Kashif
Alyza Kashif 20 gün önce
Wow. Frederik has pretty much changed my over-sensitive life. Kudos to him.
Alyza Kashif
Alyza Kashif 19 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo My goodness! I'm surprised my comment actually reached you. I'm touched that you actually took the time to reply. And of course you are welcome, Frederick. That is some really good advice and I will definitely keep it in mind and share your video with as many people as I can - and hope they don't take the recommendation personally :D From the bottom of my heart, Alyza Kashif
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 19 gün önce
Hello Alyza, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
ASMITA PAWAR
ASMITA PAWAR 20 gün önce
Beautiful philosophy unfolded beautifully!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 20 gün önce
Hello ASMITA PAWAR, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
ibtissem benhammada
ibtissem benhammada 20 gün önce
I am here watching this because of one of my friends advised me to learn how not to take things personally. This presentation helped me to overcome many of my mental issues I am suffering from these day 🤍thank you 😊
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 20 gün önce
Hello Ibtissem benhammada, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you and helped you to overcome some of your mental issues. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Hetvi Merchant
Hetvi Merchant 20 gün önce
really wonderful video. thank you so much for this
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 20 gün önce
Hello Hetvi, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
I’m dumb for responding but
I’m dumb for responding but 20 gün önce
Practice improving progressing my/your emotional intelligence pretty much
wallflower
wallflower 20 gün önce
this is probably the best and most effective tedtalk ive seen :) will definitely be coming back to this video every time i take things personally
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 20 gün önce
Hello wallflower, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
wallflower
wallflower 20 gün önce
amazing
Athena Nina
Athena Nina 20 gün önce
Take an antidepressant
bigfishbovvl
bigfishbovvl 20 gün önce
Every single person on this planet has forgotten this and it's exhausting.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 20 gün önce
True. Please share the message!
Neshu neshuification
Neshu neshuification 20 gün önce
This guy's creeps me out so hard he is a fricking sociopath, wtf it's just so very toxic, should not be a Ted talker
Roft Is Loft
Roft Is Loft 20 gün önce
holy best best-loved it ❤❤
Roft Is Loft
Roft Is Loft 20 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo thank you so much sir i really liked the way you gave the speech and will surely try to impliment all those tips you taught on the video and thank you so much you really helped me out with this one and also thank you sir for this lovely reply back much love and respect sir ❤
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 20 gün önce
Hello Roft Is Loft, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Kit Hutchinson
Kit Hutchinson 21 gün önce
20 euros to referee soccer? That's about $25. I get paid a lot more to officiate games.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 20 gün önce
Good for you.
Fil More
Fil More 21 gün önce
This guy took things personally that he made a whole ted talk about it
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 20 gün önce
True.
Abass Akinsanya
Abass Akinsanya 21 gün önce
This is simply “WOW WOW WOW WOW”
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 20 gün önce
Hello Abass, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Liz
Liz 22 gün önce
I will always remember that this is the first ted talk that made me cry
Marie Fletcher
Marie Fletcher 3 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo I just watched your TED talk and I loved it; it was perfectly timed for me as I have just had a major set back at work. I have taken it very personally but I will try my best to continue to see my value. Do you have any further tips on how to do this? Thank you for your positivity.
Liz
Liz 18 gün önce
​@Frederik Imbo Hello, I did not expect your response. However, I'd like to say, you wouldn't believe how much this video affects me, so much truth you've told in there and how well you resonate with the audience. I shared this video on my Instagram story right after I watched it. I am sure, some people need to hear this as much as I do. You're an amazing speaker. Warm regards, Liz
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 22 gün önce
Hello Liz, Thank you so much for your kind message. How sweet share that the Ted talk made you cry. I hope that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Sakshi Priya Dubey
Sakshi Priya Dubey 22 gün önce
This man is great Loved the way he defined so much truth about us ❤️
Sakshi Priya Dubey
Sakshi Priya Dubey 22 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo I seriously never imagined that you could reply to my comment that's so modest of you And really thanks to make us realize when we are not right and I appreciate that positive mind of yours which even motivates others to go on path of positivity you are genuinely great Love and Respect for you
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 22 gün önce
Hello Sakshi, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
Sheriff
Sheriff 22 gün önce
thankyou for an amazing speech fredrik!!!!
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 22 gün önce
Hello Sheriff, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
808 EN Co
808 EN Co 23 gün önce
I am sorry for being grumpy to the check-out guy today. It was early and I do not like being touched (it was the just the shoulder). I'll be more British-like and just curse people in my head from now on.
Gheorghe O'Nadocia
Gheorghe O'Nadocia 23 gün önce
That happens a lot when I drive
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 22 gün önce
Hi Gheorghe. Well, hopefully now you have two strategies that can help you to no longer take it personally when you're driving.
The Singtarist
The Singtarist 23 gün önce
...And I took that personally.
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 22 gün önce
haha! Please don't.
ADI Pandey
ADI Pandey 23 gün önce
just amazing
ADI Pandey
ADI Pandey 22 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo to be honest this was the best TEDx Talk i have heard it was really amazing Insane hope you keep doing more talks
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 22 gün önce
Hello ADI Pandey, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
60 pingX
60 pingX 23 gün önce
best ted talk in history
60 pingX
60 pingX 22 gün önce
@Frederik Imbo Hello. Thank you very much for your answer! You are a very wise man. Unfortunately, I have been feeling very bad for a year. I feel a big pain in my heart. I have traumas but I don't know how to heal them. I found out that I should love myself, but I hate myself. I am 17 years old and my dream is to become president. Unfortunately, nobody listens to me because I'm not intelligent and my character is funny. :(
Frederik Imbo
Frederik Imbo 22 gün önce
Hello 60 pingX, Thank you so much for your kind message and huge compliment. Wow. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo
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