I spent a day with BORDERLINE PERSONALITIES (BPD / Emotion Regulation Disorder)

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AnthonyPadilla

AnthonyPadilla

2 yıl önce

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AnthonyPadilla
AnthonyPadilla 2 yıl önce
come back next week for
stargirl
stargirl 2 yıl önce
Anthony is the only interviewer I will ever trust.
FormulaCloth
FormulaCloth Yıl önce
I’m surprised none of them talked about feeling empty, depersonalization, derealization, dissociating. I deal with those symptoms the most and it would’ve been nice to hear their experiences.
KraftyKris10
KraftyKris10
The most tragic thing about people BPD is their disorder usually pushes people around them to want to leave which is their biggest fear.
angel kei
angel kei Yıl önce
Would love to see an interview focused on quiet bpd. bpd is already so stigmatized as-is, and I feel quiet bpd has another layer of misunderstanding to it. would love for others to see that all these feelings can be directed inwards and don't always look so fiery and explosive/reactive.
Chris Bael
Chris Bael
My names Christian, and I am medically diagnosed with BPD. She's right in saying mental health professionals sometimes refuse to treat us. I recently went to a mental hospital off a suicide attempt, and the doctor released me immediately as soon as I revealed that I have BPD. She said "we can't help you, you're too manipulative". She barely even talked to me for 10 minutes lol wth
JJCMUFFIN C
JJCMUFFIN C
I dated a girl with BPD, and she was the most lovely person i have ever met, but eventually she pushed me away and switched to another person. She has been through a lot and I really wish i could be there for her still to help her
Gabriela Xavier
Gabriela Xavier 2 yıl önce
The fact that he admitted he did something wrong, was willing to manipulate someone... just wow... hes so strong and brave
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e ٩(。•ω•。)و 9 saatler önce
I was diagnosed with bpd almost a year ago while in the hospital, I still remember how hard it hit me when I got the diagnosis. Now I’m going to therapy regularly, trying to form healthy relationships and slowly learning how to manage it. Thank you anthony for taking the time to learn and educate others on a disorder that has been demonized for far too long ❤️
Scarlett Clayborn
Scarlett Clayborn 2 saatler önce
having bpd i understand the struggle thank you for doing the topic its nice to know more about other people like me to relate to
MYKEE!
MYKEE!
I'm glad Anthony left SMOSH and is doing these actually legit meaningful and educational videos. We need more content like THIS for sure. Thanks for spreading the word about so many different groups of people from the mouths of the actual people in a humble, genuine conversational style.
Red
Red
I’ve been with someone with bpd for 2 years. Biggest tips and advice I have is. Be understanding and forgiving. Understand what they go through and the struggles we don’t even consider on the daily. Understand how hard they’re trying to be a good human and how much it hurts them. Forgive them when they fuck up or lash out. They’re humans with extreme emotions. Not animals. Keep an open dialogue and make sure that BOTH parties are open and communicate when you’re both calm and level headed. When one person starts or gets upset pause and continue when everyone is calm again.
Ned Hesser
Ned Hesser Yıl önce
I love that Anthony‘s disclaimer was more than just “I am not a doctor and I’m not responsible for you“ to actually effectively telling people “I care enough about your mental health that I don’t want you to go into a rabbit hole over a TRshow video, so please talk to a professional“ - like dude, you are doing great things for the world.
Erin
Erin 2 yıl önce
Could you do spending a day with people who have OCD? I think that would be cool and insightful!
Aley Sabrina
Aley Sabrina
I have BPD and a stable relationship.
Purple Wolf
Purple Wolf Yıl önce
I'm a quiet borderline. I tend to hide very well with things I'm going through. Talking to someone about them I feel burdens them but doesn't help anyway because they won't understand. I've yet to have the right therapy. Therapist here really don't want to deal with people with bpd. I've isolated myself. I have no IRL friends. I'm thankful for the people I've met online and have accepted my rage outbursts. I try and ignore how much I still struggle with bpd.
Holly Kal
Holly Kal Yıl önce
Living with BPD is exhausting and it takes me every minute of every day to just live mindfully and practice being emotionally regulated. Thank you for making this guys. It’s always good to know that I am not alone with my emotional handicap.
Tea S
Tea S
I have BPD, and so does my girlfriend, and her boyfriend is a daignosed sociopath (we are a polycule) and they are the only partners that have not abused or assaulted me. Having BPD makes us vulnerable and easy to manipulate. Psychosis, heavy emotions and mood swings, anxiety, paranoia, constant empiness when there isnt a strong reaction happening, etc etc... its all so hard to deal with. Shout out to my narcissist parents who caused my mental illnesses! So many wonderful, true friends, who know how to deal with me now!
Mearra Mirror. On the wall
Mearra Mirror. On the wall Yıl önce
If you haven't done it already, I think one of the next interviews you should do is "I Spent a Day with People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder."
Delirium
Delirium 2 yıl önce
I've never clicked so fast. I have BPD and it's SO hard to find good representation of our disorder. The stigma around BPD is horrible. Most of the books you find on it are about getting away from us, how we're awful and manipulative and abusive and it's honestly so heartbreaking. I'm about to watch the video, knowing that I will find an interview that is fair and treated with kindness and understanding. Thank you for these videos.