Love is not just looking into each other eyes but looking the same direction.

"Real love doesn't make you suffer. How could it?” -ECKHART TOLLE 🙏🏽💜🧡🔥⭐️

I can listen to this guy everyday for the rest of my life and never get tired of his words.

'Spend 2 weeks with your parents and then see if you enlightened'..love this🙏🏼❤☀️

Your own essence holds an intelligence within itself. The more you connect with this essence, the more able you are at choosing the right people to engage with. Your soul speaks, and if you learn to resonate more with your soul, then you'll be able to find those who you resonate with too. -Much love from a growing TRshowr

““A genuine relationship is one that is not dominated by the ego with its image-making and self-seeking.” - *ECKHART TOLLE* 🙏🏽💜🙌🏽⭐️💫🧡

Real, true, unconditional love is basically falling in love with yourself. Thats the definition of true love for me.

I embrace everything I am. I release anything that drains me or is causing me suffering. I connect to the divine and know the Universe is always with me, exactly as I am.

To my understanding romantic love is never unconditional, it might be a tool for emotional growth and a speed ticket to enlightenment (especially the difficult ones), but it’s no wonder that authentic spiritual leaders and monks are celibate. They experience oneness, and if you experience that, you don’t need another to make you complete. There is nothing wrong with relationships, if you’re into that. But because of the conditional nature of it it will always leave you ultimately unsatisfied and that generates suffering. Also almost always egos are operating the relationship. That takes away a lot of energy and a lot of time. You can ‘practice’ on every being (just like he mentioned parents), that’s also a good way to grow. I have yet to see a selfless, loving relationship without the involvement of egos and expectations. When it happens, must be really beautiful. But even that doesn’t last forever and attachment also causes suffering. So, to my view relationships are not designed to make us happy and fulfilled, but more to speed up our way to enlightenment, if we only listen to what it wants to teach us.

- I just want to let anyone who’s reading this comment know. I wish you great success, health, love and happiness! ✨

When I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere, They were in eachother all along. (Rumi)

Unconditional love is loving humanity as it's parent. Tolerance , forgiveness and understanding. Your partner is the person you are drawn to who helps your soul feel in alignment.

Here's hoping everyone that reads this finds their partner and can connect emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually and finds compatibility and balance and awareness and understanding and love and happiness.

Basically everyone has a different capacity for giving/recieving love that's built into their form. Think of it like a light bulb: 50 watt vs. 100 watt. The unconditional love is the electrical current which we all have in common. The person that you should get into a relationship with, ideally, is someone who shares the same wattage as you, so that you will maintain compatibility while reaching your highest potential. Too often a 70 watt person who's only operating at half of their potential, gets with a 40 watt person operating at their full potential. At first, the 70 watt person will appreciate that person's energy, but as they start to reach their potential, they will outgrow that connection pretty quickly.

Letting go of expectations held on eachother makes way to an authentic, heart to heart, flourishing relationship.

Just because you love everyone and everything, doesn’t mean you want to live with it all.

The unconditional love I believe is a grace, recognition and acceptance of all, but not everyone we love is meant to be in our lives.

One of the ways to feel positiv*e energy is to take your attention away from the negative and focus on everything that transmits positivity to you. Have a beautiful day! 💜💜💜

I beleive that unconditional love is beyond physical attraction, you love someone as an existence, just because she\he just is a human being..✌️💖🙌

Wow. Imagine a world where both of my parents are Enlightened, as well as my grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. That would be GRAND. 😊✨🌟

Once again another video that somehow gets released precisely when i've been thinking of those matters, thank you for this gift.

I just had to tell you this. I fell into the fear trap again so I watched Milton's Secret with my daughter, we both found our way back to the Present. We both are so grateful for all you do to help us rise when we forget and become heavy with what is not real.

Whoever is reading this May all your dreams come true 🤗

While married to a narcissist, I experienced enlightened awareness. Soon afterwards I felt I needed to leave the marriage & be on my own. Unfortunately for myself I stayed & the utopian peaceful experience lasted only several months. It's something I'll never forget. The details of the experience such as perfect alignment with synchronistic events that occurred very often daily. How quickly each day passed. How each person I was in conversation with, was at ease with me, & i could feel the relaxed air between us which was natural & beautiful, some of them I'd known for years. How information from within would be there instantly as I needed it & this is the supreme intelligence within us all that we're born with & how I naturally saw everyone as my equal & the love for everyone is a peaceful love. Pure acceptance & It's not that I needed to say anything to anyone about it, My energy was non threatening & peaceful & that is real Love. If someone had asked me that question that eckhart tried to answer. I would say that it comes naturally because when we're living by our true nature, everything is natural.

Taking care of aging parents was extremely difficult and rewarding. It brought me to my knees and shattered my life, but when I look back I can only see peace in my life now. They are no longer alive and I wouldn’t want my children to go through the same thing.

He has just explained the true definition of love❤

To those who are/have been living with their parents whilst going through this transition towards enlightenment - I hear you. I see you!

A few days ago, I spent an afternoon with my mother. I failed the enlightenment test miserably. 😊

Thanks again, Eckhart. I just love your heightened insights. You help me to rethink my bad thoughts and to invite new and better thoughts. I ‘am’. That is all I need to know, feel, and experience. 💖

Love does not only unite Love also severs and separates

Yes this resonates. My husband & I started out with similar beliefs then I started questioning confining religious beliefs. Now the spiritual aspect isn't there & I feel disconnected and unfulfilled.

I understand that true love is a state of transcendence between two or more people and that true love is a reflection to the essence of yourself. The only thing I want to know is how can we tell when we've reached that transcendent point with our partner without it coming from psychological form? Also how do people get to the transcendent point in a relationship without prioritising ones needs/desires of a partner first i.e physical attraction, emotional and psychological compatibility, etc.. because we won't be consciously happy with ourselves if we are dating someone who we have no connection with on the form level. Where is the line between being with someone on a transcendent level and a form level

Much love to you, and all beings, past,present, and future❣️🕯️🙏

Transcendent love of all and Love for a significant other are separate from one another, yet inclusive one with the other 💞

You choose the right partner by humbling yourself and telling God you are in need of one ( and He already knows btw) and asking God to bless you with the right soulmate. Ask Him alone for He has already matched you up but requires you to know that He is in control of everything. You are not.

Often when i'm just being present, waves of energy goes throught my body when i trigger em, i dont know exactly how I do, but everytime i get big goosebumps from the energy waving. I have to be very still and rooted in the moment for it to happen

Make the reality you want be blessed by you instead of you being blessed by it. In other words how can you become the person that enriches the reality you want, so it needs you rather than you needing it. 💜 Heart-Based Manifestation TRshowr

We are all capable of unconditional love. But somehow, within the family nucleus or in relationships, we become less capable of expressing or living in unconditional love. This is because somewhere, somehow, the idea of ownership arises. We start to feel entitled to the life of another. As if we own them or we own rights over their lives. We soon want to change the others in our own image. So that they can see life through our own eyes. We end up chaining others as well as chaining ourselves. The human need to control is what ultimately causes all of this. What we forget is that secretly we are looking for OURSELVES in others and when this does not happen or ceases to happen, we feel disappointed. NO ONE is ever going to fulfil more than one or two of your needs at any given time. And when those needs change (and they always do!) you are back to square one. The solution: work on your inner self-fulfillment so that you stop expecting it to come from anywhere outside of yourself.

As I get older unconditional love is letting go, being fully free on one another, I've not yet lived it in my old age as I've confused love with attachhnen of fear, fear of losing it, fear of not being enough and alone .. Not the relaxed, easy love flow where you are energised in their presence... For now I'm only experiencing on my own not in someone else...

pure love and i love your video. I just met the man i love and it feels different than anything i had before, imagine its when u had your 2nd partner. its an instant understanding that is not based on a direct physical attraction, its rather on a whole body, mind, spirit and of course both are attracted. its transcendental. we even did not get intimate for 7 dates. and it feels not like anything i had before and i am old and had many partners haha

Love this guy. He's the best. 👌🏻

The main driving force is unconditional love, but because we ARE in these specific vessels with this specific mind, we will feel attachment and attraction to those that we love unconditionally. Correct? Balance is the key to a healthy, lasting partnership with another transcended being. Both being aware of their "essence" (as you put it - enlightened), is necessary for there to be a true experience of unconditional love. . . right? Anyways, bless you. And thank you for what you do. I'm still on a journey to finding balance. But I know I will get to where I need to be. It is a matter of time.

Romantic love cannot be unconditional, otherwise there wouldn’t be any difference with loving a family member. Romantic love is conditional and that’s what makes it special. It’s never carved in stone.

For everyone that is reading this. May god and the angels give you peace and fullfill you with love. Love is so powerfull and we must spread it all over the world to protect us from all evil. ❤🙏

Hahaha, the end was the best. My apartment is under makeover and I am having to live with my parents, I thought it was going to be only 1 or 2 months, but it's already 5 months, and I realized I'm definitely not enlightened yet xD But it has been a profound practice for us and I'm grateful that we are all into spirituality and being able to heal together.

Eckhart's videos never fail to relax me

You and your partner have chosen each other in the spirit world before incarnating into the earth this time around for the purpose of soul growth. You may have more than one partner at different stages of your life all divinely planned. 💕 just remember to be kind and have fun.

unconditional love doesen't mean you agree with everything, you do not have to like everything, we are ONE in diversity, unconditional love comes from the ONE we are, the more you are aligned with the One , the more unconditional love you have for all, so if someone does something that hurts you badly, you forgive instead of hate them because you know that the core of that person is the same as you, do mind that forgiving a person who did something "wrong" is not the same as accepting the wrong doing. Unconditional is what you/we are

Love is the total allowance of all that is. unconditional love means allowing all to be, so so love everything about any lifeforms, the beauty of the forms the essences ... all of it

I would add that it is perhaps easier to access the transcendent love with some people more than others. A romantic partner might be the person you find it easiest to be present with.

I love your Form and mind, heart and PEACE+Wisdom Eckhart !

The person has limits, but the transcendent aspect is Infinite. Familiarity breeds contempt.

Thank you for this enlightenment Eckhart 🙏

Thank you from my soul! ♥️💫

His smile while reading the question speaks by itself. He could have stopped there :)❤

I'm in a weird situation with a man... I think I love him, but I don't know if this thing we have is actually healthy, or really just another trauma bond. I need prayers. Him and I both do, that whatever this is between us, will ultimately be for our own healing. And that we will co-create something that is loving and magical and beautiful and happy and wonderful and miraculous and healthy, together... Love and/or friendship to last lifetimes...

What we know and what we learn are two different things...

I wish everyone who reads this comment a beautiful day 🍀

Eckhart Thank you for your content and the possibility of automatic translation of the subtitles to my language.

Decide, choose....let things happen

Dont we all, but its excepting these things in each other. Seeing our faults. Your right about the parent whos difficult. This is the greatest test. X

Omg does he know how funny he is… love the dry humor in between the wisdom😄

I know it was a joke but I actually spend 2-3 weeks with my parents every year and they are often the best weeks of the year. That comment made me laugh and I had to share it. 💕🐉

And what about Campbell's differentiation between eros, amor and agape? Just incredible. He is the master on this theme. The power of MYTH.

QUESTION: If let’s say we all love each other unconditionally, how can I decide to which to be my partner? Is this based on physical attraction? Isn’t this a contradiction with this higher state of consciousness? ANSWER: Ok, so if you love everybody unconditionally how can you possibly decide who is going to be your partner? That’s the question. Because it seems and there’s no preference anymore. Or if it’s physical attraction - isn’t there a contradiction, if you’re in a higher state of consciousness where you shouldn’t or not be physically attracted to anybody is that the implication there questioned? Well, the love we are talking about, the unconditional love towards human beings and life forms is a… See, what is it that you love in the other when you love unconditionally? You don’t love their physical form, you don’t love their psychological form, their personality. Their unconditional love goes deeper. It’s a transcendent love, that what you love is not the form, but the formless essence of the other. And you can only love that when you can sense within yourself that dimension of formless when you can be still and present enough and then look at another human being. Then you can recognize something. What you recognize is for lack of a better word the consciousness which is the essence of the other human as it is the essence of who you are - consciousness prior to the consciousness being born into some kind of form, personality which is there in the physical form, which is there. But in every being, there is still the dimension of consciousness that is prior to form. Although the human being has become form, consciousness assumed form has incarnated, so to speak, but that doesn’t mean that the formless and timeless consciousness is lost. It’s still there as the essence. And when you can sense it in yourself, you can sense it, because you are still in presence enough. From that dimension in yourself, you can sense it in the other and that is LOVE. It’s basically a recognition that in essence the other is the same as you. But then of course there is always that is the transcendent dimension to every human being. In addition to that transcendent dimension, there is a form-identity of every human being. Every human being has a physical form and emotional form and a mental form that’s a personality. So the physical appearance and a personality consisting of mental and emotional conditioning and so on. So, there are the two levels. The unconditional love towards all humans is the transcendent love. The love (the formless, [the recognized of formless]) as yourself and the other. But then you’re still here as a form too. And the form may respond to another form - the physical, that can be physical attraction. It is not incompatible with the transcendent realization although some ancient or not so ancient traditions may tell you that. It is not incompatible you can have physical attraction on the level of form. You can also have an attraction towards the mental-emotional form of that other human being because it resonates with something in your own form. So that means you may be drowned to the other human being physically or mentally, emotionally, because you resonate with that. And then perhaps you enter into a relationship. So there different levels operate - the transcendent remains. It can become obscure through excessive attachment of course to the mental-emotional dimension in the other. So in a relationship, the realization of essence identity (as I sometimes call it) can become obscured when form identity takes over completely, which could happen through the pain body. Which could happen through emotional (getting identified with arising emotions and losing touch with the transcendent). Yes, that can happen, but it’s not incompatible. Everybody’s challenge is to balance the two in their lives in their relationships to relate to the other on the transcendent level and at the same time if it is there on an emotional-mental-physical level. Without the transcendent dimension in the relationship, it’s not ultimately satisfying and it cannot really truly work for long if the transcendent is missing completely in the relationship. Its physical attraction and attraction between personalities is not enough to keep it going. Can be going for a while, but then it becomes frustrating and you see more and more of the limitations of the other person. And the other person sees more and more of your limitations. Which are always there and when you live together it becomes very obvious that the other person has his or her limitations. Now as long as the realization of the transcendent dimension is there and that fine, there’s also limitations can be exist within the space of the transcendent. They’re not destructive of the relationship. Now you may find it’s sometimes easier to have this unconditional love towards people that you don’t know so well than people easier than towards people that with whom you shell a lot of past. Because there the past the form identity of that person can be very powerfully there in your mind in your interaction. So that’s the challenge of being present with family members: parents, grownup children, and so on. And of course, as you know Ram Dass recommends if you think you’re enlightened as a test he recommends that you spend two weeks with your parents and that will tell you whether you’re really enlightened or not - going spend two weeks staying with your parents for two weeks. In most cases that is a good test, unless your parents are enlightened in which case there’s not much point in using it doesn’t tell you anything.

The question is: Are there ways to tell who are more inclined to access the transcendent level in relationships? Is that the quality of being able to remain present, still and conscious?

Este hombre puede morirse tranquilamente afirmando "yo le hice bien al mundo, me voy en paz". Qué bien nos hacés.

i need to be able to be conscious like you it seems so effortless watching you just sit so calm 🤣

Only love your kids unconditionally, is my advice. Hold everyone to a standard of respecting you, as you respect them.

Such a blessing to know of you teacher 🙏

The very act of looking for evil in others develops evil in those who look. By dwelling upon the faults of others, we are changed into the same image.

so clear, thank you 🙏

Analyzing it to pieces...love just is. Trying to explain it is to extract the life out of it. Eckhart Tolle or not.

I LOVE to listen to you Mr Tolle 🍃💙🍃

I feel ya my brother!

With the other spirit, those that love only want the best for you, to be selfless with love jdx 🙏🙏🙏💕

Great teaching. Formless love + Vibrational frequency resonation + Physical attraction

By recognizing the oneness in the other and wanting to share that with them in Being.

Every time I hear one of my associates/friends say, “I love you” when they’re on the phone or otherwise, I always ask them if they’ve ever told that person why/how that is true. The response is usually the same…they draw a blank. Or….he/she already knows….It’s implied. Well…no it’s not. Try it sometime and watch the response from your significant other or whomever.

Incredible teaching. 🌟

👍👌👌👌wunderbar!! Danke schön 🙏💜

Powerfully clarifying. Thank you

Unconditional love is the love of love itself

How to tell- The checklist feels irrelevant, if you have options with others. Or, If someone likes you, is good enough, if your options with others are rare. Don't be alone for long.

I love Eckhart unconditionally

If you want to know if you're enlightened, go spend 2 weeks with your parents. :) That's comedy gold right there. 😂

Thanks Eckhart.. I laugh to.. Me including 😂😂.. Mumm.. Spirit🌈💛 it's difficult to find someone according with the both..

First we must be our soul B4 finding a soul mate. Keep the spiritual horse B4 the material desire for a mate

You don't need a partner...be alone... it's better...

embrace all the levels of attraction WHICH INCLUDES BIOLOGICAL DESIRE = which creates and encourages momentum to create new beings /children - my parents fell in love but then my mother got sick and went insane right after i was born -despite their shortened relationship i was created and born from their union - its not just about how a relationship can benefit us but also how the relationship can add to the continuation of life force here on earth /this dimension = bringing souls here to learn and be challenged for growth and soul experience - alot of times these questions are asked in hopes to control and maximize the benefit of relations but the chaos and conflicts of imperfect attractions are also sacred and again the “urges” and attractions serve their sacred role in bringing people together to combine genetic material in new ways that may not happen without that magical force of physical/biological attraction :)

Isnt it about sacrifice. What matters most to you? Are you able to give up the ego. I tend to attract people on a emotional and spiritual level. But I still attach value to somebodys physical appareance like height or body type. I find it hard to let that go.

Its relating to the heart, a mirror image , with love jdx 🙏🙏🙏💕

Stay on your own path (in the light), it"s already written(stars). You radiate (=attract) what you are on in the present moment. I am.. all that is.

Very true. However I feel it applies as much towards animals and all life forms, yet they are unlike us.

You don't decide, you just know..

Beautifully explained. Thank you.

I checked Ekharts natal chart and it all make sense, his moon is in Taurus, that's why he so so pragmatic ✨

Unconditional love only exists between owners & pets!

Thank you for this video, I was wondering if Kim could also do a video on the same question.

If all is energy, and then you fall in love with the same energy reflecting back, either I accept the reflection of my energy or not? Sometimes ppl "play you back" mirror You to feed off your energy..and feed you with Your energy.. Usually at the beginning of a relationship. Once you've shared space and time.. Then the shadows start to emerge, your own and the counterpart. How well one live with one's own shadow..? That's what I got listening to this 🤗