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I totally agree!! Every TED I listeng to I find incredibly penson behind them.

I do the same 🤣😅 or in traffic .

It puts you in a good mood because you are experiencing BETA MIND your mind is constantly looking for this you have to feed this beta and you will live the life you couldn't even imagine. Thank me later

@Seth Martin & everyone... So many good Ted Talks... and my friends! Consider taking your time with these Ted Talks. Too many in 1 week, and most of it gets forgotten as there isn't enough time to reflect and consider where to apply any advise to your life. Reflection is as important as the Ted talk hitting your ear drums in the first place. Be well and Happy.

This is also one of the most misunderstood. This DOESN'T mean to take the power away from others to solve their own problems. It means to have the ability to stay calm and grounded when others are in chaos. The "move, I'll handle that" could be read as taking control - and while that's certainly necessary sometimes, especially in an emergency - it's most often a bad idea, for both the self-reliant person and for others. Not only does it contribute to burnout, feeling a lack of appreciation and overwhelm on the part of the self-reliant person, it can cause others to feel a lack of self ability and self worth, lack of resilience and co-dependency for those whom the self-reliant person is "saving." So all of the people in the situation come away feeling hurt, misunderstood and unhappy. Helping others build resiliency through your calm example and support on the other hand is a very healthy and good thing for all involved. As a recovering "fix-it" person, this is a very powerful and important distinction. Without it, that calm center is neither genuine nor long-lasting, and can be blown away with a single adverse event. Repeatedly. Sometimes, fatally.

A state of equanimity

@Iris Crain yeah i learned that from being a co-founder for an ecommerce brand... things went sideways and i went into my "gotta save the business mode" and i ended up making my partner feel like he is not contributing and ended up burning myself out... but it was hard because every task he under took... it was always subpar... i am wondering if his confidence was blown

Batman Mode

Agree!

Thanks much...... seeing this makes it stick way better 👏👏👏🙌🙌🙏🙏

If you ever notice, sometimes we become friends with a very vulgar person. They say the worst of the worst words but you never curse in front of them. Eventually you will see they will think twice before doing so. Seen it many times and they do it automatically

Nicee

Thank you ! For putting it in words

Thank you :Pray:

I felt that too

And in a way, hurtful when you don't have a good opinion of yourself and you believed that you just needed to see that you're better than you thought

Can someone explain this? :)

@Mads Without knowing it, we can have poor opinions of our own worth. We silently (sometimes not silently) question our value to the world and that gets us behaving in ways to try to prove to the world (or mostly ourselves) that we are worthy. Those behaviors of constantly striving for approval and acceptance, prove counter-productive to rising in our lives. If I think poorly of myself, I will frequently self-sabotage my life. When my worth is no longer questioned, I can meet my potential and become a greater version of my self. I've seen this said this way too "We live up to our identity, not our potential."

@Larry Tartisel Thank you for taking your time explaining this, it makes perfect sense now!

How dare you talk to me like that!

Procrastinaters are perfectionists anyway because they always wait for perfect time to do things in a perfect way, which unfortunately never comes.

I've been noticing that about myself a long time now. Still working on changing that 😩

@Zee Huss you know, I've noticed that in me and I'm trying to change it :) and I've progressed a lot

It’s all in your head

U can change bro trust! dont give up!

What do you want from life? If you could do anything - what would you do?

I hope you're doing better now

Damn

Comparable with this analogy, if you zoom out far enough you’ll realize our entire Universe is infinitely more meaningless than an extra in a movie. No matter how positive and negative you are when you’re alive here on Earth, you and everything you know will be wiped out by time and forgotten for eternity eventually.

That's a great sound but the whole talk did nothing for me.

@Stratosphere This is the reason we must recognize and respect how finite we are... yet, remain in the present. As long as suffering exists in the present, our choices, actions and how we spend our lives matters.

This is the best Ted Talk ever

the Ant Analogy though ...Anyways, why get out of comfort zone, when you can simply change the parameters of your comfort zone, and by default achieve results REGARDLESS what is in the environment. I have people always trying to put me down, but proverbial "water off a ducks back" or as in JC's words, paraphrase blessed are ye when people speak negative about you... If you depend on someone or others to purely, only build you up, and never even hint at criticizing or discouraging you, that's pretty fragile arrangement and near-impossible to find, and even if you find it, then you'd be dependent or co-dependent, along with all the dysfunctions that brings.

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That shicked😍

Aww I love that!

Thats by far my favorite quote thank you for sharing this

Carl could express the repressed..

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What are your visions for yourself and your future? How do you plan on achieving it. Keep it up

@GetDownShawty Hi. I set a plan for my life goals and then I break it down to yearly goals, quarter goals, monthly goals, and lastly plan the actions in order to achieve them. Now that 2022 is nearing, this is a great time to plan that. Thank you and good luck!

I don’t have life goals that’s the problem. Yearly goals maybe yes. Seasonal goals better. In fact I get quite sad I don’t have life goals cos I lack direction. Anyone relate? What kind of life goals have you set if I may ask? Thank you 😊

​@Esther Busuttil Hello! My life goals are long terms goals like 3-5 yrs. from now or 5-7 yrs. from now. I segment it like if it's physical goals like body goals, mental health goals, financial goals, career goals, etc. I can relate as I used to be like that. You just have to make time to grab a coffee or tea, sit and relax, grab a pen and paper, and start brainstorming about your life goals 😊 Hope this helps. Good luck!

i love that book so much

What book is it

@Asmita Acharya the perks of being a wallflower

I'm not sure I fully understand what this means. Could you explain a bit further please?

@JS It's a bit difficult actually. But I guess it's rooted in your self esteem. If you don't value yourself, other people read your body language and don't respect you either. And you're OK with that because that's what you feel you deserve. Someone mentioned, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, an underrated but very deeply thoughtful movie. That's where the phrase comes from. Watch it.

Thank you !

Thank you Derek for your authenticity and vulnerability. I'm very humbled that you allow me to hold up a small mirror to remind you of your own greatness. Peter Sage

guy was wrong - low opinion of ones worth drives greatness.. high opinion of ones worth - they will never rise

@EZ RC Not true. Having little inspires action, but only in those who feel they're worth it. Schwarzenegger is a perfect example. If you don't feel you are worth it, you simply take your lumps. What you are talking about is that "I'll prove you wrong attitude", or when others don't believe in you...but it is only capitalized on when you believe in your SELF.

@Derek B 100%. That is the statement that changed everything for me. Why could someone who has my talents and abilities actiks I do? A deep lack of self worth.

Bob Proctor too, Proctor-Galager talks further detail on the same stuff

Mee too 😐

Wow🙌🤜🏻👏💪🏼👌🏼

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Anyone who drives a vehicle deserve to be in debt coz they are hurting Earth.. Many mad man like David Attenborough have no rights to express how he feeling about da world when he is part of the problem

Very good input

IM THINKING THE SAME. This is one of the most important Ted talks.

@Capri I actually wrote this comment after watching it for the second time, that is two weeks ago. I had originally watched it almost two months ago, practiced what he suggested, and the results were magical in the first week itself. Now its just something I do without an active thought. Just try it 🙂

@Sathya Deep what did you practice specifically? I might try it too

Same :) good luck to us 👍

One of the most important thing left out. The environment influence over you, and the influence of the others on you....

6.change your environment

@Lucas Dias well spotted Lucas

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How much time did you save by using ur instead of your?

@Greatest Ever what is this the ted talk cult or sum

@Darcy hahahahahaa

I do think this is one of the greatest ted talks. It's not as fun as Simon Sinek's, but it's more important. (Atleast I think)

I'm in love with him after listening this talk.

Absolutely, this is gold. So glad I ran into this today 🙂

Your absolutely correct about this I too realized how much it distracted me from the reason I was working and complaining about what I really wanted to do with my family so these experiences awoken me and none of those things that take you away from enjoying life with your family important because the purpose has always been with us because we created it.

we are not our thoughts. we are the ones observing them.

Our lives are the results of our thoughts feelings and actions. We ARE not any of them.

You only have control on your thoughts and actions , when you will realize this is gonna be ok

The man is kicking wisdom

The Bible says watch your thoughts because it runs your life

Thank you for amazing qoutes

These are all beautiful words to live by. Thank you for sharing

Glad for you 😌😊

That holds so much truth

Really I like this too 👍

Powerful Statement ❤️

False, Jesus loves us more than we love ourselves

Wrong jesus DOES

Jesus is I am. and I am Jesus

@Sadia Manirumva only If you have the holy spirit loving in you then you are able to do great works as jesus did. But it's a slippery slope claiming the I Am bc only Jesus is the true I am. When u allow him to work through you not taking any credit for yourself but giving him all the glory then ur statement could be somewhat true. But it's still a slippery slope. Hey I'm just saying it bc I've been there with the I am and dabbled with the occult and new age. But once the love of God speaks to ur heart, u realize u were nothing without him and u are made in HIS IMAGE to rule the earth and have dominion over it. But he wanted to work hand in hand w u, never for u to do it alone. So its depending on how ur using that statement...."I am" at least in my eyes speaking from experience. But I'm not trying to argue or have a debate. Or say that you are wrong. Only that Jesus Loves you more than anything and he knows you, and you were never created to do this life alone. ♡ much love to u

Not true, sometimes others can love us more than we love ourselves

This has nothing to do with what your mom did or didn't do, and everything to do with you making a concious decision overcome your self-doubt.